________________________________________ / Why is it that we rejoice at a birth \ | and grieve at a funeral? It is because | | we are not the person involved. | | | | -- Mark Twain, "Pudd'nhead Wilson's | \ Calendar" / ---------------------------------------- \ /\/\ \ \/\/ \ / -\ \ / oo -\ \ / \ | ---\ -\ \--/ \ \ | -\ \ -\ -------------\ /-\ \ \-------/ ---/ \ \ |\ \ | / | | \ | \ | | / \ | | / \ | \ \ \| - /--------\ | o \+ +--------- \ | | | | \ | | \ | | | | \ | | \ | \ | | | | | \ \ | | | | +--+ ---+